May 23, 2013

Tips for Early Reading

Are you looking for some Tips for Early Reading?


Any book that helps a child to form a habit of reading, to make reading one of his deep and continuing needs, is good for him. ~ Maya Angelou

When my son was in 1st grade we tried reading with Sonlight curriculum.  My son did not take to the I Can Read series.  He was easily frustrated with the rhyming and getting tongue tied.  He cried … a lot.

I finally put up all our reading materials and we did not open a “reading” curriculum for 6 months.  I felt the boy was not ready and I would not push reading on him.

After 6 months we picked up 100 Easy Lessons and ended up cruising through the book (sometimes being asked to do another lesson).

This was all great for our “reading time”, but the boy wanted to watch tv, play Wii, or do anything but read on his own.

It took some time, but with some intentional planning the child now enjoys reading.

Tips for Early Reading

1. Get your children their own library cards. Don’t miss the excitement and pride there.  Now with a card, make sure you make library trips!

2. Consider resource books rather than chapter books.

3. Try different series (adventure, mystery, etc.) until something sticks.

4. Know when to walk away from a series.  Sometimes book 3 is not as great as book 5, but still an interest.  When your child does not like the characters, story, etc. at all – don’t get another book from that series/author.

5. Set a daily alarm for “reading time”. Require reading before electronics.

6. Don’t forget magazines. You can check them out of the library or invest in a subscription.

7. Read bible together.

8. Keep more than one book around.  Check out a bag full and put them around the house not just in the “school area”.

9. Get a pen pal – they will want to read their letters. (no pen pals available – write letters to family members).

10. Mom should set an example of healthy reading rather than facebook / twitter time.
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Check out my post at The Happy Housewife for more tips to Make Reading a Family Thing.

 

Valentine’s Day Project – Love in Action

I want to see love in action in my home.  I want it to be habitual.  But I have two head strong – polar opposite boy who do not “feel” the same way about love nor about each other.

I can tell them they have to love each other.  I can scare them and warn of Cain and Abel.  But the fact of the matter is that they need to first see love in action between me and my husband and second – they need to practice it.  I find when we reward children for good behavior they are more likely to repeat it.  A repeated behavior over time becomes a habit — I’m shooting for love habits!

I printed out 5×7 blank hearts.

We cut out little construction paper hearts – of course in different colors for the 9yr old not to make a fuss about “girly red”. (sigh this age can definitely be a little draining for this girly mommy)

 
I am hoping for them to see their actions – especially important for my visual learner!  Both boys have their own blank heart.  Every time a child shows love in action  a little red heart is glued to the black and white cut out.  We want to fill up these hearts by Valentine’s Day.

We want to fill up these hearts all the time!

No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. 1 John 4:12

Want to know what we’ll be learning in February? – Check out my February Calendar !!

 


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Preparing for The 2:1 Conference

 

This week I began prepping my notes for my break out session at the 2:1 Conference – Cultivating Community.  Cheryl asked me to speak on this topic awhile back – from The Homeschool Village perspective – and I have just about been sick talking her out of why I should not be the one to do this.

We do not have “the biggest” community.  I am not connecting with all 3,500+ facebook friends (and that’s the only time you’ll ever hear me talk about numbers).  Susan and I only wanted to bridge homeschoolers … one little monitor screen at a time.  We never had any intention of dominating the online world (not like any one can).

Cheryl has full confidence in my “grassroots” style of cultivating community according to God’s Word – 1 Thessalonians 5:11 “Encourage one another and build each other up”.  So I stopped arguing why I was not the right person for the job and embraced my passion for community. (I had a little Moses in me – mumbling muttering why I’m not the right person – now I’m going to put my faith where my mouth is!  I’m relying fully on God to make it His breakout session and be obedient, “YES – SEND ME”).

I’m excited now as I start planning on what God wants me to share to help homeschoolers who blog. (you do not have to be a blogging homeschooler to attend).  My belief is that everyone who has a blog and one reader has community.  Yes – even 3 followers warrants the title “community”.  Jesus shared community with 12 disciples – 3 in particular most closely.  When we cultivate our blog community – it naturally grows.  

I will show from God’s Word:
“word of mouth” & self promotion
partnerships vs division lines
give without relying on giveaways
why God wants us to do life together - even online life.

I will show all of this using examples from The Homeschool Village and my own personal blogs!
I will also talk on:
community happens in healthy environments
taking the focus off comments
what ad space can’t do
ways to make your readers commit to subscribing 

And that’s just my break out session — there are many more great homeschool moms speaking on a variety of topics!